One of the Joys of Adulthood

18 years ago - #piano

I've been taking piano lessons this year. It's one of the skills I always wished I had. Also, I used to plink around on the piano all through high school and college writing music. I miss it, but this time I'm going to learn to play correctly in the hopes that I can write something more than just chords and a melody.

Anyway, I have run across one of the great joys of adulthood. When I was a kid, I always felt bad about not practicing enough (well, not bad enough to actually practice). As I got older, I got to see that the kids that practiced a lot were significantly better musicians, so I practiced maybe a little more than when I first started - but still not really "enough". Now that I'm an adult, I realize that I don't have to feel bad when I don't practice! It's my responsibility! No teacher is going to give me a bad grade, no parent is going to scowl, my instructor doesn't even really get that upset (I think because he has other clients that almost never practice). What's the result of my not practicing? I'm not as good at doing the thing that I chose to do.

Most of the time, I practice every day and enjoy it. However, there are times when I don't practice because I've been too busy or travelling. I relish the freedom I feel at knowing that there's no one around to admonish me. It's one of the times that I can suddenly appreciate being a responsible adult. And sure enough, I get back to practicing when my schedule frees up.

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Just had lesson #3 from Robert Cowie yesterday. The lesson hit me as particularly profound. We did a lot of the same types of exercises that we had done before, playing clumps of notes together, transposing up a half step, outlining phrases. But this week the general theme of the lesson was playing with your ear, not your mind.
One of my New Year's resolutions this year was to learn piano. I started with someone that I had found on craiglist. It started off well. However, I felt like I outgrew him rather quickly. All of the pieces that he picked were frenetic finger exercises and I often grew bored of the pieces. One of the first pieces that he had given me was a Back minuet. I liked the piece, and got the fingering down realtively quickly. However, the more I practiced it, the less like music it sounded. It kept sounding more and more plodding, forced, and "scale-like".